I cheated on my girlfriend with my next-door neighbour who is a man

DEAR DEIDRE: I CHEATED on my girlfriend with my next-door neighbour but now I’m riddled with guilt. 

I’m a 43-year-old man and I’ve been with my girlfriend, 41, for 15 years.


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One night she invited my neighbour’s partner round so they could have a girls’ night in.

I get on really well with my neighbour, so we decided to have a lad’s night in at the same time. We watched a couple of films and got really drunk.

We ended up having sex. He said it was just a one-off but I can’t help wondering whether I am gay.

My neighbour is 38 and I know he’s seeing another guy.

I feel so jealous and used, yet I do care for my girlfriend. I just don’t know what to do.

DEIDRE SAYS: Of course it was wrong to cheat but a one-off experience doesn’t mean that your underlying sexuality has changed. But you may have discovered an element to your sexuality you don’t seem to have been aware of.

Steer clear of this man and be careful not to have too much alcohol in future. It can make people behave in a way in which they wouldn’t dream of behaving normally. 

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